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#COVDrama: Introducing Mr. & Mrs. Kasali

I will like to give a short family drama series tagged: “Mr. & Mrs. Kasali”. Sit right and enjoy! Mr. Kasali was sitting down relaxing with his cap covering his face as if he was sleepin when Asake, his in-law who just got married paid them a visit. Asake was gisting her sister about her … Continue reading

  • Yesterday Was Children's Day Celebration, I Am Sorry For Not Posting This Yesterday Because Due To Some Personal Reasons. I am using this medium to wish the children a happy celebration. Before I leave, let me share this prayer with every couple seeking for the fruits of the womb that by the power in the name of Jesus, This Time Next Year, Your Children Will Be Among Those To Celebrate The Children's Day (I Know That They Will Still Be A Year Old Or Less). May God Almighty Open Your Shut Womb And Grant You Your First Issue In The Next Nine Month. Amen! Watch Out For "Excellent Exploit With God"
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  • You possess what you confess. What you confess into the life of your children is what you will find possessed in them. Calling your child a good name will improve his/her ability to think better based on the great and positive things that you have said into his/her life. It will bring about inner motivation even at the time when they are depression and challenges. In addition, you shall reap this when you are facing challenges because it is your child that will be the one to inspire you and motivate you just as you have done to them. They will make you happy in returns because you have sown positive words into their lives. Negative Confession can cause ruins and damage into the life of a child. Your words are powerful in the lives of your children. Whatever you tell them sticks into their memory which can never be forgotten. It will either be used for you positively or negatively in the nearest future. What's Your Own Contribution To This?
  • This is a common thing we do say or ask ourselves sometimes. Let us now give our view on this: If you were to save just only one person from a dangerous event like fire outbreak or any other accidents you could think of, who is the only person that you will save? Is It Your Child Or Your Husband? - For Females To Answer. Is It Your Child Or Wife? - For Males To Answer. Please Be Sincere With Your Responses Below. Thanks!
  • It has been a while now that article is posted on this site. I am using this medium to wish you a happy new month. This month shall be the month of progress, prosperity and pronounced success. This Month shall be better than the previous months. Amen! Amen!!
  • Some comments from the story source are: *Ur mum is @ fault, but as d man, try 2 calm ur wife so dat she can beg ur mum, and everytin b resolved#peace. *Mmm..Apologis to ur mum no mata wat, she is still ur mum. *Ur mum is at fault, jus do sorry to ur wife nd ask ur wife 2 say apologise 2 ur mum 4 peace 2 reign in ur family cos u cant snd ur wife away cos of ur mum’s fault. *No matter how is it, you have to beg your mummy,and tell your wife to forget about the matter, just settle the problem. *U mum is at fault but u as a man try 2 convince ur wife 2 apologies 2 ur mum and as well try and make sure peace returns 2 ur home.ur mother feel more pains when something happens to u than ur wife.believe me or decline it.nevertheless both of them are important. *Your mum cannot and can neva dictate 4 u.u re a man,a grown up man.ur mum is at fault,she is a woman like ur wife,she was once pregnant,ur mum should put herself in ur wife’s shoe cos wot ur mum did was really bad of her as a mother.
  • Let us take a look at this issue in a family: "I left home happily this Morning for Office with everything in perfect shape only to come back home with my Mum Face Swollen seriously and Red... I met my Wife lying down on the Floor helplessly... I was confused, and finally called a Friend who Carried my Wife while I carried my Mum to the Hospital. After 3 days when they’re both very much Fine, I tried to figure what happened between them only to Find out they engaged in a battle because My Wife was watching a Soap Opera when my Mum came into the Parlour and summon her to change the channel to a movie. She said she gave her a polite excuse that the Soap Opera will end in 5 Minutes time but Instead my Mum landed her a dirty slap and drag her off the Chair she was sitting on, then she was stepping on her on the floor before she bounced back on her. She Said I Should Send my wife away or else...(raining curses). What can I do?" This is just a summary of the story Source: http://www.naijaloaded.com.ng/2014/01/20/
  • Don't underestimate the importance of good manners. Your children will grow up to be more considerate of others if you teach them how to be that way when they are young. You can do that by setting a good example. You must always say "please" and "thank you" to your kids. Even when you are saying, "Please get me a napkin," or "Thank you for helping me." And don't forget good table manners. When it comes to proper behavior, caution your children in order to avoid embarrassment in public. Teach your kids what you think is acceptable and what is not acceptable. Make sure that you are consistent about the rules. Some general table manners include no gross jokes, no throwing food, no leaning back while sitting in the chairs, no talking with food in your mouth and definitely no loud belching or passing wind. Yes, in some cultures belching after a meal is acceptable but try not to irritate others. I believe these tips would help you to enable you children have good table manner. Thus, You can contribute as well.
  • Yelling is the worst way to communicate. Here is a guarantee: When you yell at your kids, they are not listening to a thing that you are saying. All they are doing is sitting there teary-eyed and upset because you are yelling or they are getting angry themselves. Your point is lost, they are upset, and you are upset.Nothing has been accomplished. When you yell, your message doesn't get across. So whenever you reach the point where you are about to yell at someone, stop and leave the room. Just for a second, mind you. Take a few deep breaths, get your composure back, and approach the situation again. Your job is to communicate your ideas to your children in a calm manner. Yelling shows your kids that you have lost control of yourself. You are trying to be a role model and teacher. Yelling is no t a trait that you want to pass on to your kids. In fact, it comes back to haunt you as your kids grow older and their hormones get all stirred up. After all, when you yell, you are only teaching them to yell.
  • As adults, parents sometimes are brave enough to say, "What exactly does that mean?" They do this hoping they don't sound too much. Kids, on the other hand, will smile at you, and nod, or better yet, stare at you with blank looks on their faces. Here are some real-life comparisons of interpretations from your mouth to your child's ears. *.What you say:"John, you need to be responsible and put your dirty clothes in the clothes hamper every night." What he hears:"Jordan, you are too dirty put your dirty clothes in the clothes hanger every night." *.What you say:"Don't be sarcastic to your sister." What he hears:"Don't be sack and stick to your sister." Talk to your kids by using words that they understand. Getting your point across is easier when your kids know what you are talking about. If you don't think they understand, ask them to explain what you've just said. That is how you know that you are getting your message across.
  • When you really want your kids to hear you when you talk, physically get down to their level. If you can't squat, pick them up and put them on your lap. Look them right in the eyes, speak calmly and slowly, and say what you have to say. Don't be vague or babble and don't try to impress your children with your fabulous expanded vocabulary. Encourage your children to look you in the eye. Kids can be standing right in front of you and have a bobbly head. They're not paying attention. You certainly don't need to get down to your children's level to say, "Good morning," or "Are you hungry?" Save this kind of action for serious conversations such as, "Now, Simon, what did you do with Mommy's keys?" or, "Do you understand why you got into trouble for hitting your brother over the head with the bat?" But don't forget that the most important part of communicating is being a good listener. Communication can't work both ways when you're doing all the talking and none of the listening.
  • Good communication skills are the foundation for building a great relationship with your kids. However, so many different elements get thrown in the way that listening and communicating aren't always easy or effective. Here are some techniques that you can use to improve communication with your kids. It doesn't necessarily mean they'll mind you or agree with what you're saying, which is okay, but at least they'll hear what you're saying. Talking vs. being heard Mother:"I've informed you a googolplex times to abstain from vexing your sibling." Child:"Huh, Mom?" When you talk to your kids, you must keep a few things in mind. If you have something to say, and you want to be heard, do the following: *.Get down to your children's level. *.Use simple words. *.Get to the point. *.Don't yell. Source: dummies.com
  • I am very sorry for not posting on this site since due to some personal reasons. Hope my apology is accepted? Alright, I am so happy that you are all alive to the glory of God Almighty. May this year be your year ofsuccess, promotion and elevation for you and your family. Now back to my question, "What Is Your Plan For Your Family In This Year?" This is what I want you to answer below.
  • My Dear READERS, whether you are old or young, I will like you to state your plans through your reply below. Moreover, as you mention those plans here, so shall it be as GOD will help you fulfill them according to HIS plans for you. In addition, to the plans or goals to be stated here, I have a short message for you. To fulfill your plans, remember that you have to: Be Active or Actionable to carry them out as stated. Bring out the Best in you to fulfill them all. Care about others and be Careful not to oppress others when operating. Be Determined and be Deligent in your work. Be expressive to so that GOD can provide provision for your vision through your expressions. Focus and learn from your failure to move forward. Give what worths giving so that you can also be given unto. Honour those whom honour is due so that they don't obstruct you on the way. Be Intelligent and show Integrity because you need it. Just keep trying and you will succeed one day. ......to be continued....
  • Season's Greetings To You All! From my readers,guests or visitors to my followers, I wish you all: Complement Of The Season. Glory be to God. If it has not been you who spend time to read what I published over five months now, there won't be any traffic nor visits even to talk of followers. Despite that the articles are short and brief, you are still there to encourage me. I really appreciate you all for your readership and comments. May GOD also be with you all. Today, Christmas, is what we have been waiting for to celebrate with our families. Therefore, as we celebrate the birth of JESUS CHRIST today, may all those seeking for the fruits of the womb celebrate within the next nine month for their own new-born babies that they desired. If you believed that can I hear your response with a louder "AMEN!!!" Once again, merry christmas and also have a wonderful happy new year (in advance).
  • Christmas period is a time your children are expecting something great and wonderful from you as parents. Most of them are writing their first-term examination this month. You can use this opportunity to boost their performance in school to the extent. You will surprised by the time you see their reports. Do you know that with just your words of encouragement and promise made during this season can do a lot in the academic life of your children? I will mention just two as I have stated earlier in the title: PROMISE and ENCOURAGEMENT. » PROMISE: Promising your children special gifts will help them to put more efforts and work harder in order to make you happy in fulfilling your promises. For instance, a boy asked his father,"Daddy, I need a new pair of shoes." "Buying you a new pair of shoe is not a problem. If you can bring a good result, then you will have more than what you asked," he replied. » ENCOURAGEMENT: encouraging your children will boost their confidence and they will believe in themselves.
  • I am using this medium to wish all the readers of "Channel Of Virtue" a Happy new month. I am thanking GOD that we all witness this month being the last month of this year. Therefore, we all have reasons to praise and thank the LORD our GOD who has kept us alive from the beginning of this year till this moment. All GLORY belong to the ALMIGHTY GOD.
  • Sex is what most parents refused to teach and enlighten their children about. Moreover, before I continue, let me ask you these questions: Did your children ever know about sex? Did you inform your children on what they need to know concerning sex? Are they finding the right information from you or from an outsider? When your children wanted to ask any related questions did you ignored them or reply in a wise way? Are you giving your female children wrong information that if a guy touched them they would be pregnant? Are they free to share some of their feelings with you? Are you intimidating them that if you see any opposite sex with them they are in trouble? Dear Readers, what is your response to these questions? Please let discuss these by commenting below.
  • Encouraging a child enhance their skills and abilities. It helps them to put more efforts in doing their best all the time. But instead of encouragement, some parents discourage their children and they never know that these can affect their children. For example, let take a look at these reactions of parents of a child that score 40% in an examination: Common Discouraging Words: "You score 40% where your mates are scoring 90%. We are just wasting our money on you, useless child". "You score 40% and you are happy? You are not even ashame? When I was at your age, I scored at least 80%, you better find something else to do!" Words Of Encouragement: "My child, you really tried but you need to put more efforts and do better next time. I will get you a private tutor that will help you". "Oh God! You score 40%. Well, I know you can do better because there are some who score less than you. I want you to reduce your play and stop watching movies." Now to you parents, give your children the encourage they need.
  • There are lots of different movies being produced everytime. Some of these movies are not suitable for children to watch, while some children are so stubborn that they find a means of watching such movies. As a parent, you need to guide your child and help him/her in finding and selecting suitable movie to watch. Therefore, I am going to share with you few tips on how you and your children can enjoy your time in watching suitable movies that will benefit the family. » Inform and enlighten your child on film indications at the film cover such as: "G" suitable for the general audience. "P" that required parental guidance. "18" suitable for those from 18years of age and above. "12" suitable for those from 12years and above. » Listen to the critics of such movie and get a review of it from those who have watched it in order to know whether to watch the movie or not. Some films have attracting title but attacking (i.e. affecting the children). Therefore, guide your children in film selecting the best.
  • It was a Friday afternoon when this little girl got home. After eating, the child brought out her books and went to her mother to assist her in doing the assignments. DAUGHTER: Mummy, this is my assignment. MOTHER: Common leave me alone! Can't you wait till tomorrow or are going to school on Saturday? DAUGHTER: Mummy... Now! (started crying) MOTHER: I just got back from market, and I want to rest. Go and keep it since today is Friday. ## A Neighbour passing-by interrupts ## NEIGHBOUR: Madam, answer her. Give her what she wants. MOTHER: Don't mind her.... She doesn't hear word. I have told her that I will do it tomorrow and she is still disturbing me. Is she the only one? ##As the girl keep crying, the mother use a cain to send her inside.### Now to you My Dear Readers, is it the child that is faulty or the mother? What can you say about this issue? Please share your own opinions on this issue. Thanks
  • This site, channelofvirtue.wordpress.com is nominated in the 2013 Nigerian blog awards in the best family and parenting blog category as published on the 2013 Nigerian blog awards website on November 4th. Therefore, the voting has begin today November 11th and it will last for just four weeks. Your VOTES is needed to win this award. This is what you are required to do for you to VOTE: Visit www.nigerianblogawards.com/vote2013.php ENTER your *NAME and your *EMAIL address for validation. Then SCROLL DOWN to see the nominees to vote for. Scroll down to the FAMILY/PARENTING Category, and SELECT "CHANNEL OF VIRTUE". Scroll down and click on SUBMIT. PLEASE NOTE: You are going to recieve a validation email from Nigerianblogawards@gmail.com to ensure the counting of your vote. PLEASE CONFIRM THE LINK SENT. That's all. THANKS.
  • What can you do to enhance safety online? Well, let me suggest these and you share your own ideas also. Some children spend the whole of their time online than the time spent on their studies. I suggest that you need to: * Decide when your child can use the internet. * State the length of time they can be online. * Inform them on the type of sites to visit and those they should not. * Discuss your guidelines with them and make sure they understand them. * Spell out correctly what the consequences will be if your rules regarding the internet is broken. Then enforce those rules. * Monitor your children's use of the internet, and let them know that you will be doing so. This is not an invasion of privacy. Therefore, the values you teach and the example you set will go much further in protecting your children. You are a channel to enhance the virtues in them. So take time to discuss what happen on the internet with your children.
  • When you are talking of the internet, some children know more than their parents. If care is not taken, your child will get exposed to wrong things online. Let us consider some of the online activities that children are attracted to and their potential dangers. » EMAILS: Emails are written messages sent online. One of the dangers is that some spam messages may have a link to unsolicited sites with adult contents, gambling, etc. » WEBSITES: Millions of sites exist to provide information for everyone but some are not for your children to visit due to their contents. Some websites feature explicit sex, immoralites and other dangerous acts. » ONLINE SOCIAL NETWORKS: The social networking sites enhance people to express their identity, chat and meet new friends. Personal information posted on social network sites can be exploited by fraudsters and sexual predators. Some even give their private information to strangers via this. Why? As parents, what can you do to protect your children from online dangers?
  • Do you have a true friend? I want you to know that, those you choose or call best friends have someone else they choose as best friend apart from you. So take note as i am going to share some quotes that will help you to know a true friend. This will help you build a last longer friendship: » A true friend accepts you as you are and believes in you. » A true friend doesn't give up with you but stays with you in times of problems and admire all sides of your personality. » A true friend forgives and forget your mistakes or wrong deeds. » A true friend helps you and encourage you to try again when you fail. » A true friend makes a difference in your life with positive impacts and says nice things about you. » A true friend offers support and always understand you than others. Dear friend, who is a friend to you? I mean what are the qualities you are expecting from the person you choose as friend? Please let's share this.....

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