Encouraging a child enhance their skills and abilities. It helps them to put more efforts in doing their best all the time.
But instead of encouragement, some parents discourage their children and they never know that these can affect their children.
For example, let take a look at these reactions of parents of a child that score 40% in an examination:
Common Discouraging Words:
“You score 40% where your mates are scoring 90%. We are just wasting our money on you, useless child”.
“You score 40% and you are happy? You are not even ashame? When I was at your age, I scored at least 80%, you better find something else to do!”
Words Of Encouragement:
“My child, you really tried but you need to put more efforts and do better next time. I will get you a private tutor that will help you”.
“Oh God! You score 40%. Well, I know you can do better because there are some who score less than you. I want you to reduce your play and stop watching movies.”
Now to you parents, give your children the encourage they need.