“You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare for marriage.” – Bishop Oyedepo
Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend wedding and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy.
Wait!!! It is not just the wedding. The wedding is just one day. After the wedding WHAT NEXT?
It is not something you rush into!
My question is, why are you interested in marriage now?
Are you really prepared for it or you want to enjoy what couples are enjoying in marriage?
I will like you to understand some things based on the article, “3 things you must know before choosing a life partner” (you can read it here). I compared marriage to a pair of shoes whereby I talked about having the size made for you.
From that, the following questions is very important for every single who wants to choose a life partner.
Ask Yourself These Questions
-Where is this shoe made from? (Background)
-What’s the size (Values).
-How much (His/Her interest).
-How long will it last (His/Her Character).
-Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith i.e Compatibility).
-Will it match me? (whether he/she love you and will accept you the way you are)
Remember, many are dragging their foot and they would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish they could pull off the shoes but no way!!!
I have seen people with beautiful shoes and when they show you their foot, you will see scars. Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the size, you can’t know the size from afar so come close, build a relationship first but remember “you are not permitted to try it before you buy it”.
And for those who have purchased the wrong shoes, you can still make it your size again if you’d consult Almighty God, the manufacturer and let Him have His way in your marriage.