The best thing is to see others the way God sees them and love them the way they are. Some people believe anyone who is not like them has a problem.
They thought they can change other people or get them to measure up to their standards. You really can’t change anybody except God sent you. It’s only God that change people. You can help them through your prayers.
If you think you can change someone just because you want him/her to meet your standards, you are only deceiving yourself.
The change you need to embrace, however, is that which helps become more of what God wants that person to be. This is the expression of God’s glory, righteousness and love.
You don’t need to change your spouse, neighbours, friends or colleagues, you just need to love them. They are all wonderfully made the way they are.
Therefore, share God’s love with others to help them become what God wants them to be, not what you want them to be.